What's in It for Them?

9 Genius Networking Principles to Get What You Want by Helping Others Get What They Want

Author Joe Polish
$9.99 US
Hay House | Hay House Business
On sale Nov 01, 2022 | 9781401960117
Sales rights: World

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WALL STREET JOURNAL BESTSELLER!

When everyone around you is asking What’s in it for me?, Joe Polish—“the most connected person on the planet”—offers one simple question to change the conversation.


There’s no shortage of networking and entrepreneurship advice in books and on social media in today’s world—but it’s harder than ever to know what’s authentic. To make matters worse, taking the wrong advice can result in superficial connections, transactional relationships, and unsatisfying interactions with others without any real rapport.

Fortunately, as entrepreneur and marketer extraordinaire Joe Polish has discovered, there’s a simple (though sometimes not easy) way out that begins with one question: “What’s in it for them?”

In What’s in It for Them?, Polish faces the problem of personal and professional disconnection head-on, offering entrepreneurs a heart- and mind-expanding guide on how to:

· Deepen rapport and connect with others by identifying and reducing their suffering
· Update Dale Carnegie’s insights to win the right friends and influence the right people
· Overcome others’ intimidation tactics to find true appreciation in relationships
· Build character for better results than capabilities can ever give on their own
· Use basic marketing principles to find true love
· Protect your efforts from the “takers” of the world

And much more—all to help the givers of the world thrive in business without neglecting their relationships.

Early in life, Joe Polish’s struggles with trauma and addiction led him to a disconnected life. After getting sober in recovery, he spent years developing his genuine and generous approach to building rapport and transformed from a dead broke carpet cleaner to being dubbed “the most connected person on the planet” for his work with Genius Network, one of the world’s most impactful networking groups for high-achieving entrepreneurs.

After 30 years of putting his own advice into practice, Polish now speaks to audiences all around the world and is surrounded by business leaders and billionaires he calls friends. In What’s in It for Them?, he explains his one-of-a-kind approach to rapport-building he used to get there—and offers a few cautionary tales along the way.
“In a world where loneliness and disconnection are actual epidemics, Joe Polish steps up with crystal clear, timeless ways to create authentic relationships that benefit you and the world. These lessons come from a modern master of networking with real, deep friendships. Read this book to help the world be a better place.”
Dave Asprey, founder of Bulletproof Coffee and four-time New York Times best-selling author

“Joe Polish outlines the game plan for success and peace of mind that anyone can adopt via the radical concept of generosity. He shows you how to make the world a better place and become wealthy without sacrificing your soul.”
Chris Voss, former FBI hostage negotiator, CEO and founder of The Black Swan Group, and author of Never Split the Difference

“I’m always irritated by how-to books written by people who’ve never proved they know how to. Joe Polish’s What’s in It for Them? is exactly the opposite. . . . He is an absolute master at establishing relationships with people he’s in business with. . . . This indeed is the critical element, above and beyond having a great product and knowing how to market it, that turns entrepreneurship into success. And makes it fun!”
Steven Pressfield, best-selling author of The War of Art and Turning Pro

“One of Joe’s greatest gifts is connection: his uncanny ability to connect us with new ideas, new possibilities, new people, and most importantly, ourselves. This book is a treasure, filled with profound wisdom and practical strategies that will benefit you and those you serve for years to come.”
Marie Forleo, #1 New York Times best-selling author of Everything Is Figureoutable

What’s in It for Them? brilliantly modernizes relationship mastery with an entertaining, uplifting, and very raw honesty that is often lost as authors try to write something that will offend no one and have a little something for everyone. Joe’s book provides priceless, actionable, step-by-step strategies that you can start using right away to build better relationships, live a better life, and create positive change and impact in the world.”
Roland Frasier, co-founder and/or principal of five different Inc. Magazine fastest-growing companies

“Everyone knows people prefer to do business within strong relationships. The unanswered question was always exactly how to build those relationships. Not anymore. This brilliant book shows us precisely when and how to do it. That’s what makes it brilliant . . . and indispensable.”
Robert B. Cialdini, author of Influence and Pre-Suasion

About

WALL STREET JOURNAL BESTSELLER!

When everyone around you is asking What’s in it for me?, Joe Polish—“the most connected person on the planet”—offers one simple question to change the conversation.


There’s no shortage of networking and entrepreneurship advice in books and on social media in today’s world—but it’s harder than ever to know what’s authentic. To make matters worse, taking the wrong advice can result in superficial connections, transactional relationships, and unsatisfying interactions with others without any real rapport.

Fortunately, as entrepreneur and marketer extraordinaire Joe Polish has discovered, there’s a simple (though sometimes not easy) way out that begins with one question: “What’s in it for them?”

In What’s in It for Them?, Polish faces the problem of personal and professional disconnection head-on, offering entrepreneurs a heart- and mind-expanding guide on how to:

· Deepen rapport and connect with others by identifying and reducing their suffering
· Update Dale Carnegie’s insights to win the right friends and influence the right people
· Overcome others’ intimidation tactics to find true appreciation in relationships
· Build character for better results than capabilities can ever give on their own
· Use basic marketing principles to find true love
· Protect your efforts from the “takers” of the world

And much more—all to help the givers of the world thrive in business without neglecting their relationships.

Early in life, Joe Polish’s struggles with trauma and addiction led him to a disconnected life. After getting sober in recovery, he spent years developing his genuine and generous approach to building rapport and transformed from a dead broke carpet cleaner to being dubbed “the most connected person on the planet” for his work with Genius Network, one of the world’s most impactful networking groups for high-achieving entrepreneurs.

After 30 years of putting his own advice into practice, Polish now speaks to audiences all around the world and is surrounded by business leaders and billionaires he calls friends. In What’s in It for Them?, he explains his one-of-a-kind approach to rapport-building he used to get there—and offers a few cautionary tales along the way.

Praise

“In a world where loneliness and disconnection are actual epidemics, Joe Polish steps up with crystal clear, timeless ways to create authentic relationships that benefit you and the world. These lessons come from a modern master of networking with real, deep friendships. Read this book to help the world be a better place.”
Dave Asprey, founder of Bulletproof Coffee and four-time New York Times best-selling author

“Joe Polish outlines the game plan for success and peace of mind that anyone can adopt via the radical concept of generosity. He shows you how to make the world a better place and become wealthy without sacrificing your soul.”
Chris Voss, former FBI hostage negotiator, CEO and founder of The Black Swan Group, and author of Never Split the Difference

“I’m always irritated by how-to books written by people who’ve never proved they know how to. Joe Polish’s What’s in It for Them? is exactly the opposite. . . . He is an absolute master at establishing relationships with people he’s in business with. . . . This indeed is the critical element, above and beyond having a great product and knowing how to market it, that turns entrepreneurship into success. And makes it fun!”
Steven Pressfield, best-selling author of The War of Art and Turning Pro

“One of Joe’s greatest gifts is connection: his uncanny ability to connect us with new ideas, new possibilities, new people, and most importantly, ourselves. This book is a treasure, filled with profound wisdom and practical strategies that will benefit you and those you serve for years to come.”
Marie Forleo, #1 New York Times best-selling author of Everything Is Figureoutable

What’s in It for Them? brilliantly modernizes relationship mastery with an entertaining, uplifting, and very raw honesty that is often lost as authors try to write something that will offend no one and have a little something for everyone. Joe’s book provides priceless, actionable, step-by-step strategies that you can start using right away to build better relationships, live a better life, and create positive change and impact in the world.”
Roland Frasier, co-founder and/or principal of five different Inc. Magazine fastest-growing companies

“Everyone knows people prefer to do business within strong relationships. The unanswered question was always exactly how to build those relationships. Not anymore. This brilliant book shows us precisely when and how to do it. That’s what makes it brilliant . . . and indispensable.”
Robert B. Cialdini, author of Influence and Pre-Suasion